Freedom of communication
Why do we communicate? We are a part of the whole world, universe, and as long as we are and want to live in this body on this planet earth, we want to share our experience and connect with others. We learn from each other and share our joy and love.
But mostly in this time we are in a certain unconscious lack and connect with somebody else to fill the lack.
During the pregnancy we only communicate with energy and our heart with our mother in her womb. So there is no distractive thought from the child. The child lets unconditional love flow all the time. What happens with mothers? What do they think during a pregnancy? If you gave birth to a child you will know and everything is ok with it, because we are here to learn. And to give birth to a child is the greatest feminine learning process human beings can have in their life, because action is no issue during this process. You cannot make it happen, you have to let happen.
So this first communication naturally is with no expectation, believes, longings….,just being in a receptive mode, allowing, aware. Most women being pregnant never were prepared for this with learning to be receptive, allowing, connecting.
There is no need, no past, no future, no goal, no wanting to arrive somewhere. Not knowing, what will come and how it comes, how it looks like, not even knowing what time it will arrive. Just knowing that it is becoming and it will come, if the child is ready.
Wow
In this process we can experience pure flowing unconditional love in both directions. It is a very peaceful, quiet, fulfilling communication.
With our first breath on earth we hear ourself , our voice, the first screaming out “There I am”. After that we as a baby communicate with our body, our voice, to get the things we need , basic needs, to survive. We wouldn’t have to make any noise to be heard, if women would remember and reconnect to the language of heart and real connection. Our mother would have felt, when it is time to feed or nourish in other ways.
But it’s ok. We all learn and new generations will find back to that.
Many moms in new generations have found back to their inner peace and connection. Everything evolves. Humans development is great. But some mothers in this days stil communicate with the baby in a way that it learns how to fit in the system, in which the mother (and father) live and in which both of them try to fit in and find some happiness. But it is not the natural rhythm of the parents, nor the rhythm of the baby. So it begins to become stress.
Together we start witnessing each other. We as a baby come to know our body and the way life around us already is defined by people from the past, by our parents. Together we find out how life was, is and how it could be evolving, because we as a child experience through fresh eyes and don’t know fear. So we don’t understand the fear, stress and expectations of our parents.
So we, the next generation always witness, watch and want to change, always want to make things better than before, to feel better than our parents seem to feel.
That’s why most of us communicate, to educate themselves and others, to have success, to have a relationship….stil many people communicate to get attention, because they feel unworthy or to get confirmed in their knowledge, get justification for their action and for a bad seeming behavior of other people, talking about other people in a negative way.
Natural communication is a way to express yourself in a loving way or to uplift another person, not more, not less.
Parents don’t , cannot teach babies to speak. Most of the time parents talk to the baby because they think they have to, to teach the baby. But the baby learns by itself to speak and walk because of its receptive mode. Parents just have to be present,loving, give space and basic condition, so that the child can unfold naturally in a unique amazing way.
There is no need for education. Look in other places. There are lots of new ways to be with children, not just talking, expecting, wishing for them in ways we think life has to be. These people just hold safe space, are there. If the children have questions, they answer or show them where they can find the answer in the internet. In this way they find and trust their own inner guidingsystem.
In this togetherness natural communication is communicating to create, to exchange experience, to find solutions, to play, to learn, to express feelings, to uplift, to have fund, to evolve.
So to provide natural uplifting communication we all should be aware of our motivation before we talk. Why do we want to talk? Just to express our frustration or to judge other people because we think we will feel better after that?
Let’s stop that , it’s a process, a learning. We have to watch ourself for a while and just change our way of talking. With this we change our way of thinking…..and this will change our surrounding and every life on earth.
Have fun with witnessing your words. Laugh about your negative thoughts. Change and you will be the change you want to see in the world (Mahatma Ghandi said).
If you communicate in a different way, more aware of your words and conscious when speaking, your surrounding will change magically.
Start now.
You are made for this.
Dakinisun
Just read this for some days in the morning, knowing that this freedom is yours. Practice daily to change your thoughts into positive loving easing thoughts. It takes discipline for yourself and it will take you into a wonderful new lifequality.
If you cannot believe, that freedom is possible in your life, because you feel limited because of outside conditions, you will learn more about how to integrate this freedom into your life with choosing individual loving support in skypesessions, intensive support for 3 to 7 days, email.
With allowing this support you will know how to find any answer on any question you will have in life in yourself.
But mostly in this time we are in a certain unconscious lack and connect with somebody else to fill the lack.
During the pregnancy we only communicate with energy and our heart with our mother in her womb. So there is no distractive thought from the child. The child lets unconditional love flow all the time. What happens with mothers? What do they think during a pregnancy? If you gave birth to a child you will know and everything is ok with it, because we are here to learn. And to give birth to a child is the greatest feminine learning process human beings can have in their life, because action is no issue during this process. You cannot make it happen, you have to let happen.
So this first communication naturally is with no expectation, believes, longings….,just being in a receptive mode, allowing, aware. Most women being pregnant never were prepared for this with learning to be receptive, allowing, connecting.
There is no need, no past, no future, no goal, no wanting to arrive somewhere. Not knowing, what will come and how it comes, how it looks like, not even knowing what time it will arrive. Just knowing that it is becoming and it will come, if the child is ready.
Wow
In this process we can experience pure flowing unconditional love in both directions. It is a very peaceful, quiet, fulfilling communication.
With our first breath on earth we hear ourself , our voice, the first screaming out “There I am”. After that we as a baby communicate with our body, our voice, to get the things we need , basic needs, to survive. We wouldn’t have to make any noise to be heard, if women would remember and reconnect to the language of heart and real connection. Our mother would have felt, when it is time to feed or nourish in other ways.
But it’s ok. We all learn and new generations will find back to that.
Many moms in new generations have found back to their inner peace and connection. Everything evolves. Humans development is great. But some mothers in this days stil communicate with the baby in a way that it learns how to fit in the system, in which the mother (and father) live and in which both of them try to fit in and find some happiness. But it is not the natural rhythm of the parents, nor the rhythm of the baby. So it begins to become stress.
Together we start witnessing each other. We as a baby come to know our body and the way life around us already is defined by people from the past, by our parents. Together we find out how life was, is and how it could be evolving, because we as a child experience through fresh eyes and don’t know fear. So we don’t understand the fear, stress and expectations of our parents.
So we, the next generation always witness, watch and want to change, always want to make things better than before, to feel better than our parents seem to feel.
That’s why most of us communicate, to educate themselves and others, to have success, to have a relationship….stil many people communicate to get attention, because they feel unworthy or to get confirmed in their knowledge, get justification for their action and for a bad seeming behavior of other people, talking about other people in a negative way.
Natural communication is a way to express yourself in a loving way or to uplift another person, not more, not less.
Parents don’t , cannot teach babies to speak. Most of the time parents talk to the baby because they think they have to, to teach the baby. But the baby learns by itself to speak and walk because of its receptive mode. Parents just have to be present,loving, give space and basic condition, so that the child can unfold naturally in a unique amazing way.
There is no need for education. Look in other places. There are lots of new ways to be with children, not just talking, expecting, wishing for them in ways we think life has to be. These people just hold safe space, are there. If the children have questions, they answer or show them where they can find the answer in the internet. In this way they find and trust their own inner guidingsystem.
In this togetherness natural communication is communicating to create, to exchange experience, to find solutions, to play, to learn, to express feelings, to uplift, to have fund, to evolve.
So to provide natural uplifting communication we all should be aware of our motivation before we talk. Why do we want to talk? Just to express our frustration or to judge other people because we think we will feel better after that?
Let’s stop that , it’s a process, a learning. We have to watch ourself for a while and just change our way of talking. With this we change our way of thinking…..and this will change our surrounding and every life on earth.
Have fun with witnessing your words. Laugh about your negative thoughts. Change and you will be the change you want to see in the world (Mahatma Ghandi said).
If you communicate in a different way, more aware of your words and conscious when speaking, your surrounding will change magically.
Start now.
You are made for this.
Dakinisun
Just read this for some days in the morning, knowing that this freedom is yours. Practice daily to change your thoughts into positive loving easing thoughts. It takes discipline for yourself and it will take you into a wonderful new lifequality.
If you cannot believe, that freedom is possible in your life, because you feel limited because of outside conditions, you will learn more about how to integrate this freedom into your life with choosing individual loving support in skypesessions, intensive support for 3 to 7 days, email.
With allowing this support you will know how to find any answer on any question you will have in life in yourself.
